Guidelines for Selecting the Right Ethnic Wear for Children for Different Occasions
Having worked in the area of children’s fashion, I appreciate that picking an outfit for a child requires a blend of several factors and not only style such as comfort, confidence, and ensuring that the outfit aids in recalling fond memories years to come.
In my interactions with parents, I often get questions like, “What ethnic wear should I get for my child for a wedding?” or “Is there something traditional but not scratchy or heavy?” In this case, let me provide some insights and suggestions regarding ethnic clothing for children based on my experience.
Start With the Occasion
Not every ethnic outfit is meant for every event. For a grand wedding, say, a luxurious sherwani for the groom or an embroidered lehenga for the bride would be fitting. On the other hand, something like a family puja or a loose cotton fest at school requires more breathable and simple clothing.
Here’s the breakdown:
Weddings: Rich fabric choices would include silk, brocade, or velvet with light embroidery.
Festivals: Cotton silk or georgette in light-colored mirror prints work well.
Casual/School Events: Simple style, plain kurtas for boys and a printed lehenga-choli for girls work best.
The outfit selection is highly influenced by the occasion.
Comfort is Everything (Especially for Kids!)
One of the biggest mistakes people make is buying something that looks beautiful but ends up irritating the child. If it’s too tight, too heavy, or made of rough fabric, chances are your child will want to take it off within an hour.
Here are a few comfort tips I always follow:
- Check the inner lining — soft linings make a big difference.
- Look for adjustable waistbands on lehengas and pants.
- Go with lightweight embroidery or digital prints instead of heavy sequin work, especially for younger kids.
A happy, comfortable child will always look more beautiful than an uncomfortable one in a designer outfit.
Choose Something That Can Grow with Them
Kids grow up so fast! Instead of spending too much on an outfit that might only last one season, I suggest looking for pieces with a bit of flexibility.
Things like:
- Outfits with elastic waists
- Kurta sets with a little extra margin to let out later
- Neutral pieces like jackets or dupattas that can be reused with other outfits
Trust me, versatility is a lifesaver when you’re shopping for kids.
Play with Colors and Fun Details
Don’t be afraid of color when it comes to kids! Brights, pastels, florals, you name it — kids can pull it off effortlessly.
Some fun combos I’ve loved:
- A turquoise and pink lehenga with pom-poms and tassels
- A mint green kurta with floral-printed pajamas
- Even neutrals with a pop of gold for a more elegant look
Let their personality shine through their outfit. And if they want to help choose? Even better!
Accessories: Less is More
I’ve seen so many kids weighed down by heavy jewelry or uncomfortable shoes. Keep accessories light, fun, and safe.
Some simple ideas:
- For girls: A tiny bindi, small bangles, or a floral hair clip.
- For boys: A printed Nehru jacket or a mini pocket square can elevate their outfit.
And shoes? Comfortable juttis or sandals that won’t give them blisters.
Don’t Settle – Pick Quality Over Quantity
As a parent and a brand owner, I know that shopping for kids often feels like a balance between budget and quality. I always recommend spending a little more on well-made, skin-friendly clothing that won’t fall apart after one wear or wash.
Look for:
- Pure cotton or cotton blends
- Brands that specialize in kids’ ethnic wear (yes, shameless plug — that’s us!)
- Return/exchange options in case the fit isn’t right
Your child deserves to feel special on their big day, and the right outfit plays a huge role in that.
Caring for Ethnic Wear
Once the event is over, store the clothes properly so they can be reused or passed down.
Quick tips:
- Dry clean heavier pieces to preserve embroidery.
- Use cloth bags instead of plastic for storage.
- Always air dry before storing to avoid moisture damage.
Ethnic wear is an investment — take care of it and it will last beyond just one celebration.
Final Thoughts
At the end of the day, choosing ethnic wear for your child should be a joyful experience. It’s about celebrating tradition, culture, and family — not stress and discomfort.
If you ever feel unsure about sizing, fabric, or what works for a specific event, just reach out. Helping parents find the perfect outfit for their little one is one of the most rewarding parts of what I do.
Thanks for reading — and happy dressing!